Last updated on November 23rd, 2023 at 06:08 pm

Parents, this article is for you.  Stop pushing your children to a college degree and look at other opportunities.  Look at the facts that will be presented here before you add your weight to the discussion.  Consider what is best for your children, vocational school, community college, four-year college, trade school programs, and more.  

Only 64% of undergraduate students actually receive a bachelor’s degree.  Except for science degrees, only 58% find employment in their degree field.

Are the facts clear?  Many students fail to earn a degree then of those that do, many are not employed in their chosen career field.  This indicates that at least some children going to college are not comparable with the environment or they are too immature to select a degree that is suitable for them for future employment.  

house painter a trade
House painter

Did you know that over 60% of students graduate from technical schools with rates as high as 90%?  I have not even mentioned money at this point.  Two key issues with money, are the cost of college education and projected income in the future career.

20 highest-earning college degrees in 2023

Rank College Degree Median Annual Salary
1 Petroleum engineering $137,330
2 Aeronautical engineering $119,510
3 Chemical engineering $103,910
4 Mechanical engineering $91,250
5 Civil engineering $87,060
6 Electrical engineering $103,350
7 Computer engineering $110,140
8 Software engineering $110,140
9 Biomedical engineering $87,130
10 Materials engineering $88,730
11 Environmental engineering $89,580
12 Architectural engineering $82,320
13 Nuclear engineering $112,240
14 Industrial engineering $87,130
15 Agricultural engineering $76,540
16 Geological engineering $88,730
17 Mining engineering $92,310
18 Textile engineering $74,170
19 Metallurgical engineering $88,730
20 Engineering physics $112,240

It’s just my guess but I am sure that stats would prove this out, students who graduate with a bachelor of science degree such as nursing, will earn well.  Engineers, doctors, and others with science degrees will have lifelong employment at high salaries.  

Enlisting in the military is a viable zero-cost career

If this is your child then by all means suggest that they move on to college.  Even so, it is a good practice to expose your children to all opportunities.  It seems that there are more and more people talking about different career paths for their children than college.

Enlisting in the military is a great career choice for some.  High school students can join the Air Force for example and learn a skill.  They can stay in and retire or leave and get a good job plying their trade in the private sector.  There is zero cost to your household budget in this direction.  Again, if your child is interested.  If you do not discuss this option, they may never look at it.  

The military offers quality education in their necessary skills.  Also, should your child enter the military, they can attend college in the evening even through online courses provided by the military.  I joined the Air Force out of high school and attended classes after work hours.  

30 skills that do not require a college degree

Skill Median Annual Income
Web development $70,060
Graphic design $53,410
Data entry $36,200
Customer service $35,920
Sales $56,160
Marketing $61,730
Accounting 73,560
Administrative support 38,640
Human resources 100,140
Real estate 48,310
Construction 42,480
Electrical work 56,160
Plumbing 56,160
Carpentry 42,480
Welding 45,760
Machinery operation 50,620
Truck driving 47,820
Cooking 31,170
Bartending
Hairdressing 30,740
Nail care 30,740
Massage therapy 41,950
Personal training
Childcare
Elder care
Pet care
Farming

You automatically think your kids will go to college

The topic of this article has been rolling around in my head for some time. I feel passionate about education and the idea that our children must be prepared for life after the basement. Many middle and upper-class parents start thinking of their kids going off to college when the children are very young.

Some who own their businesses perhaps think of the kids stepping in and taking over at some point. What many call working-class people, those with good incomes in their areas who work with their hands also think about their kids going to college. 

nurse a college degree
A nursing career in high demand

When I went to high school, the schools had classes on trades e.g. metalworking, woodworking, auto repair, and others. The idea was that kids should be exposed to the trades if for no other reason than they could learn how to maintain their own homes and vehicles. One of my brothers focused on vocational programs and overtime worked his way up to foreman of maintenance for a public agency. He had a rewarding life and career. 

Average student loan debt for
Bachelors Degree – $30,750
Vocational Degree – $11,400
Trade School – $10,194

U.S. Department of Education

Many high schools have dropped trade classes

Some schools have stopped the trade classes entirely with a primary focus on college preparation. A result of this short-sighted approach to education is there is a severe shortage of plumbers, electricians, mechanical engineers, carpenters, and other trades.

Some kids today are pushed to higher education and often look down upon people who work with their hands. Many parents think that hours at the computer will prepare their kids for great jobs. Wrong.

Earning a degree will help your child. What this statement usually leaves out are the people who go through life without picking up any skills. I truly believe if you separate those without degrees between professionals (licensed trades) and those who flip burgers you will see a big difference.

Not everyone who earns a degree will out-earn others that do not have a degree. A case in point. My company hired people to work at our call center. We paid well above minimum wage and provided benefits. Some of these employees had bachelor’s degrees and they were paid the same as those without a degree.

The skilled trades can be well compensated

I work regularly with people who repair air conditioning and heating systems, they are well-paid. The same is true for plumbers and electricians that do projects for me.

Most of the contractors I work with earn more than the average college graduate without a marketable degree. A number of the people that I work with own their own businesses. You do not need a college degree to become an electrician. You do need to attend a trade school or spend years learning on the job.


Arguments for going to college

  • More job opportunities. There are more job opportunities for college graduates than there are for skilled tradespeople. This is because many jobs in the healthcare, technology, and business fields require a college degree.
  • Higher earning potential. College graduates typically earn more money than skilled tradespeople. This is because college graduates have more knowledge and skills, which makes them more valuable to employers.
  • More career advancement opportunities. College graduates have more opportunities to advance their careers than skilled tradespeople. This is because college graduates have the knowledge and skills to take on more challenging and responsible positions.
  • More personal fulfillment. Many college graduates find their work to be more personally fulfilling than the work of skilled tradespeople. This is because college graduates have the opportunity to use their knowledge and skills to make a difference in the world.

Arguments for learning a skilled trade

  • It’s more affordable. The cost of a college education has been rising steadily for years, and it’s now out of reach for many people. A trade school education, on the other hand, is much more affordable. In fact, you can often get a job as a plumber or electrician right out of trade school, and start earning a good salary without having to pay off student loans for years.
  • It’s more hands-on. If you’re the kind of person who learns best by doing, then a trade school is a great option for you. Trade schools focus on teaching you the skills you need to do the job, and you’ll spend most of your time in the classroom working on hands-on projects. This is a great way to learn and develop the skills you need to be successful in your career.
  • It’s more in demand. The demand for skilled tradespeople is growing, and it’s expected to continue to grow in the coming years. This means that if you learn a trade, you’ll be in high demand and you’ll have no trouble finding a job.
  • It’s more rewarding. Many people find that working in a trade is more rewarding than working in a traditional office job. You get to use your hands, you get to see the results of your work, and you get to interact with people on a daily basis. This can be a very fulfilling experience.

police officers no degree
Police officer great career

An electrician earns about $70,000

Let’s be more specific. The average annual income for an electrician in the U.S. is $70,000 without a bachelor’s degree. The average annual salary for a person with a bachelor’s degree in a non-scientific field is about $60,000. The point that I am trying to make is that not everyone needs a college degree if it makes them happy to become a plumber. Skilled trades are without a doubt a viable career path for many. 

The cost to obtain a bachelor’s degree

Another key point to remember is that the cost of a bachelor’s degree is over $35,000 (if you attend state school). The cost to become a professional licensed electrician is between a few hundred dollars to $11,000 depending upon the route to obtain the knowledge.

You can clearly see that a person who wants to become an electrician can do so without going into lifelong debt. Also, some companies will pay the cost for an employee to become a licensed professional in several fields e.g. welding, electrical, etc.

I have written about student debt in the past and will reiterate it here. I know people who have student loan debt of nearly $100,000 who earned art and other similar degrees in fields without strong market demand. One person I know of is earning about $15 per hour with this tremendous debt and no skills except to determine the difference between a Monet and a Manet. 

Don’t focus on college or technical college too soon

Parents should not focus on College or Technical college too soon in their child’s development. Wait until you can determine what the child is interested in or what skills they have developed. Don’t push your child into either educational situation without their input.

Spend time with your young child introducing the various trades including doctor, lawyer, etc. For example, some parents who are in the military want their children to enter the military and do not consider anything else. Teenagers start to develop their own idea of what they want and it may not be where you pushed them to be. Open their eyes to the possibilities. Talk about how to make a living.

Discuss college debt vs an academic degree. If your child is interested in a career field that is not in demand but wants to go there because they “like” it, may not be the best decision. Going away to college is attractive to some children who want to be on their own.

Room and board at college are major expense. If your child wants to become for example a Judge, have them start at the two-year school. Some kids need time to realign their desires with reality.

Why pay for four-year institutions if they decide to change majors or drop out? Your child can live at home and commute to the two-year college, earn an associate degree and then transfer to a larger school for the degree. At that point, they will know better what they really want to do in the future and can make the right choice.


Some of the best jobs that do not require a college degree

  • Software Developer

Software developers are responsible for designing, developing, testing, and maintaining software applications. They use a variety of programming languages and software development tools to create software that meets the needs of their clients or employers. Software developers are in high demand, and the median annual wage for software developers was $110,140 in 2020.

  • Web Developer

Web developers are responsible for designing, developing, and maintaining websites. They use a variety of programming languages and web development tools to create websites that are both functional and visually appealing. Web developers are in high demand, and the median annual wage for web developers was $77,520 in 2020.

  • Data Scientist

Data scientists are responsible for collecting, cleaning, analyzing, and interpreting large amounts of data. They use a variety of statistical and mathematical tools to extract insights from data that can be used to improve business decisions. Data scientists are in high demand, and the median annual wage for data scientists was $122,840 in 2020.

  • Cybersecurity Analyst

Cybersecurity analysts are responsible for protecting computer systems and networks from cyberattacks. They use a variety of security tools and techniques to identify, prevent, and respond to cyberattacks. Cybersecurity analysts are in high demand, and the median annual wage for cybersecurity analysts was $98,350 in 2020.

  • Registered Nurse

Registered nurses (RNs) provide patient care under the supervision of a doctor or other healthcare professional. They perform a variety of tasks, such as administering medications, monitoring patients’ vital signs, and providing wound care. RNs are in high demand, and the median annual wage for RNs was $75,330 in 2020.

  • Electrician

Electricians install, maintain, and repair electrical systems. They work in a variety of settings, including homes, businesses, and factories. Electricians are in high demand, and the median annual wage for electricians was $56,180 in 2020.

  • Plumber

Plumbers install, maintain, and repair plumbing systems. They work in a variety of settings, including homes, businesses, and factories. Plumbers are in high demand, and the median annual wage for plumbers was $56,310 in 2020.

  • Carpenter

Carpenters construct and repair wooden structures. They work in a variety of settings, including homes, businesses, and factories. Carpenters are in high demand, and the median annual wage for carpenters was $41,950 in 2020.

  • Mechanic

Mechanics diagnose, repair, and maintain automobiles, trucks, and other vehicles. They work in a variety of settings, including repair shops, dealerships, and factories. Mechanics are in high demand, and the median annual wage for mechanics was $47,610 in 2020.

  • Welder

Welders join or repair metal objects by melting and fusing them together. They use a variety of welding equipment and techniques to weld a variety of metals. Welders are in high demand, and the median annual wage for welders was $42,490 in 2020.

  • Real Estate Agent

Many real estate agents have college degrees but more do not. It’s a job that can be learned through courses and mentoring. Some agents become brokers and create their own companies. The median annual income for a full-time real estate agent is $75,000+


Learn a specific trade at no cost

On the other hand, your child may want to become a pipe fitter or an underwater welder. If your child decides to go into the trades and attend vocational college, suggest that they can open their own business later and make as much as they can handle also passing along the business to their children.  Apprenticeship programs exist for people to learn a skill by working with an actual company.  This way the student can learn a specific trade at no cost.

It will not serve your children if you teach them that some jobs or skills are “beneath” them. People who work with their hands keep everything working for the rest of us. Someone very good at what they do should be admired. Healthcare workers as a case in point. These people often do not have a college degree and work long hours taking care of those of us who can not care for ourselves.

Our culture is pre-disposed to a college degree

Some young people believe that certain jobs are “beneath” them. This is happening in our culture and it’s wrong. Every person has value and the jobs that they do with their hands are vital to our economy and to maintain our lifestyle.

The fact that you did not go to college does not mean your child must go. Consider this for a minute.

Going directly from high school into a highly compensate trade may be the best option for your child.

Your child should find a career that they enjoy. It’s nearly impossible to know if the career field you choose in high school will be the one you love as an adult.

There are thousands of jobs available

The world is full of young people who found great jobs without going after a master’s degree or even getting a trade school education. Here are some examples of what has happened to high school seniors after graduating:

  • High school graduates attended a 4-year college (some got a degree some did not), those who dropped out may have student debt and fall into the group on the next line
  • Young adults who failed to get a high school diploma or learn a skill and work at a fast food restaurant in their 30s.
  • Young adults who went through certificate programs, a technical education, vocational training, or other alternative to a traditional college and went into the trades or e.g. nursing
  • Individuals who entered the military and learned a skill.  Almost all military are essentially trade school graduates.  Retired or left and practiced their trade
  • Intelligent individuals who without any formal training without attending an educational institution created their own businesses or taught themselves a skill

Parents want what’s best

Parents want the best for their children and absolutely want them to succeed. Look into some of these options and get the data:

  • Career schools
  • The average cost of a vocational degree
  • Federal financial aid
  • Tuition fees
  • Degree programs
  • Specific careers
  • How much does trade school cost
  • Practical training
  • Job market

The above are just a few things to think about.  There are many sources of information.  Your research is not for a specific trade or skill, it’s to gather information about career paths and the cost of the career vs the cost to learn that skill.  Regardless of the path to becoming a doctor, police officer, or bricklayer, a parent can map out the various paths in preparation for a discussion with their children.

Artificial Intelligence

Consider the future effect on jobs as AI works itself into the economy. Will AI replace a software programmer’s job or a plumber’s job? Will an engineer or pharmacist be replaced? How about an electrician? There are no good answers now but you and your children will have to consider what we already know about AI.

It’s my opinion only based on what I have learned reading and working with AI that many “white collar” jobs will be replaced. People working in assembly lines are already being replaced. People who work with their hands building houses, and preparing air conditioners will be the last ones to lose out to AI. Something to consider in long-term planning.

contractor without degree
contractor small business owner

Path to business ownership

Many people who decide on a career in the trades find at a point in their life it’s time to start their own business. Virtually every construction company, repair company, and businesses that offer trade services has been started by individuals who worked in the field.

After learning to be a plumber and working under someone to learn the trade, some decide to start their own plumbing business. This is a natural progression. Consider if a plumber for example was making $70,000 per year what a successful person who owns a plumbing company is making.

Going to college can also lead to starting a business and that business may be just as successful. Some of the wealthiest people in the world never went to college or did not finish. This does not mean that your child should follow their example except that owning a business is a worthwhile endeavor.

When discussing the possible career choices do not neglect to talk about how their choice can lead to their own business. Even as a doctor, for example, they can start their own practice. It’s just that this aspect is usually not discussed when talking about careers.

Please read other similar articles on this site. I hope that you leave with something to think about. 

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2 Comments

  1. Nice easy to understand article – would be great for young parents to read and comprehend.

    • I am passionate about kids going to trade schools when they have the aptitude for it.

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